"When you become grateful for small pleasures, your Outlook changes and Opportunities seem to open up Everywhere in your Life."

In reality, every single achievement you gain though small or irrelevant to others is full of meaning. The problem with today’s society is that they don’t know when is enough? Most people seek for more because they want to achieve fame and success. However, let me ask you something, what is success for you? Depending on your point of view and level of contentment this will vary. Think about this, every little thing you encounter in life is a challenge. Surviving every adversity in life is already a success. If you look at things in this angle, you will see life in a positive outlook.

It is only when you feel satisfied and content with your life, you will recognize opportunities. It is because when you look at things in a broader aspect, your focus is within that path alone. In reality, opportunities disguise themselves as mischief. And this is why only few become successful. It is because they take things small, opened themselves with numerous opportunities and survived every adversity they encounter. 

Loving yourself!

"Don't Like me? Cool, I dont wake up everyday to impress You."

Criticisms, judgments and labels will always be a part of your everyday life. It is because life is always about two things; yin and yang, rich and poor and so on. Equilibrium is not possible. In life there will always be someone who would be greater or lesser than you. However, this is not a big issue in life. Why? Living your life to satisfy others would only result to insecurities and low self esteem. Always remember that your life is your own. Live to satisfy yourself and not others. 

Only when you reach the highest level of self-actualization and self-esteem that you would truly understand your heart’s desires and live meaningful life. This is far from greed or narcissism. Like they say; you can only truly love someone if you learn to love thyself first.

" A Woman is like a Tea bag. You never know how STRONG she is until you put her in Hot water."


Strength is not always seen in the physical aspect. Men by description are strong because they can lift tons of weight. And thus, this statement has been a general connotation for the word strength. However, in a deeper sense, strength cannot always be measured by physics and gravity alone. In psychology, emotional strength is defined as the ability to cope with challenges, stress and adversities. This aspect is better than the physical point of view.

Why? It is because emotions are hard to control. You will notice several individuals who lost their insanity because they loss control of their emotions. This is the strongest characteristic of a woman. You can shove her with various problems and obstacles but you will never see her give-up. It is because women, though emotional will only get stronger and knowledgeable as they face every adversities, humiliation, pain and challenges in life. 

"I'm Fine"

In the battle of the sexes, there are certain things that women are famous of. These characteristics draw a line between male and female. For example, women by nature are emotional beings. They say what they feel. They release their anger in so many ways. They cry and mourn for quite some time. And beneath these emotions one will observe that at the end of the day a woman would stand firm, confident and say the she’s fine. Why? It is because women get stronger with adversities in life. She knows what she wants and she would fight for what she believes. No matter how crooked a line could be, a woman would find ways to straighten it up. This is why a woman is strong and always in control.

"Stuff I'm going to Do"

The cycle of life as you know begins at birth. We grow and build our own story through the adventures we make. Through the years, we meet several people. In those years, we find someone who would perfectly fit in our lives for better or for worse. You get a job, get married, have your own kids and grow old with your one true love. This is a universal scenario, typically found in almost every human life but there are always exceptions to the norm. In order to make a twist that would result to a unique version of your story.


These scenes are altered to bring forth a melodramatic ending. Your life’s choices would greatly affect the ending of your story. Nonetheless, most of us are meant to follow this cycle no matter what adventures we take because life itself is a never ending process from one generation to the other. 

"Don’t date the most beautiful person in the world; date the person who makes your world the most beautiful."

Human behaviour has created standards in every society. These standards have become the living rule of most human beings. Physical appearance for example has become the highest standard when searching for love. Humans get attracted easily because of beauty, looks and sex appeal. However, basing your criteria on physical appearance alone is a shallow move. Why? It is because in this world there are other characteristics that make two people compatible. Talent, attitude and personality of an individual should be the top choices when it comes to standards. Let me ask you something is it truly worth it, if you get the most beautiful woman inside a room when you can’t communicate well? That’s the irony in life, the most beautiful person may not be physically perfect but considering all aspects, she is beautiful inside and out. Through her, your world becomes wonderful. That is the true meaning beauty. 

“I love the ones who are in my life and make it amazing and I thank the ones who left my life and made it even more fantastic.”

In life people come, people go. It is quite an ordinary routine that we meet only few who will last a lifetime with us. However, we become strong because of those who left us. It is for the reason that letting go and moving on is the hardest thing to do. Keep in mind that humans by nature are possessive beings, only few adapt with lost in short duration of time. Heartbreaks for example; last for months or sometimes years. Behind that yearning for that special someone, you grow, learn from mistakes and live your life better. It is because of the primary reason that a person will only realize his mistakes and failures through loss and through it we become a better person, strong-willed and with a better perception in life.

“Hugs were invented to let people know you love them without having to say anything.”

In psychology and sociology, it is said that actions speak louder than words. That is human behaviour, to make signs instead of just saying it. Why? It is because strong emotions are buried deep within us, that it is hard to vocalize what we feel. There are moments that we just can’t say it loud enough and we use actions instead. Love for example is an indefinite term. Through actions, we can define and interpret it in a precise manner. How? Through hugging for example, it is safe with no malice involved and yet it only means one thing. You care for that someone. You appreciate him and above all, it only states one thing; your deepest love and gratitude.

“You! Yes, you. The one reading this, you are beautiful, talented, amazing and simply best at being you. Never forget that.”

Always keep in mind that every human being is unique and special in their own ways. The problem with today’s society is we compare ourselves to one another. Standards have been set as a criterion for every human aspect. For that reason, intimidation occurs. That part in life is inevitable, but no matter what happens, as long you will always be yourself. You will be confident enough to face the world. Why? Because you’re human, all humans are created with perfection. You may not notice it now but you will surely amaze someone someday with your beauty, talent and great personality just by being you.

“If you want to feel rich, just count all the gifts you have that money can’t buy.”

In this world, it is common misconception that money is everything. Yes, richness can provide comfort, pleasure and power. However, there are certain things in life that are priceless. Take your family and friends for example; you don’t need money or power to have them. They are your most precious gifts in life that with or without money, will always be there for you. That alone is enough reason, to be considered lucky and rich. Not on material things but with love, comfort, power and care that no matter how much money you have, it will never compare to what you have.

“Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.”

In everything you do what is done is done. That is the reason why you have to take each move into serious consideration. Once you’ve made a move its final, you can never go back and redo your mistakes. Failures are product of man’s miscalculation of each move he takes. However, it doesn’t mark the end of life. It is a symbol of hope, to make a better judgement and to end your story right. As they say, you will only learn once you’ve failed. We wished to turn back the clock, but we couldn’t. Don’t let this stop you from living and creating a better synopsis in life. Every day is a sign of new beginnings. In time, one would finally make a wise move and bow down with great pride and satisfaction because your story ends with a standing ovation.       

“If everything was easy, nothing would be worth it.”

Ever wonder, what makes life interesting? How at some point of our lives, we experience great feeling of satisfaction and accomplishments? It is because of the fact that we pushed ourselves above our limits to achieve something. We strive and fight for what we believed.  That is why every success we earned comes with great emotion and pleasure. When you risk and give everything to gain success, you feel proud and satisfied. But if everything we do is just a snap away then life would be boring.  What makes life interesting is the thrilling, adventures and challenges it bring. It is up to you to decide what strategy you would take to play the game.

“Listen”

Everyone has a story to tell. That is what makes life interesting. You learn by listening and understanding each story. That is the vital reason why ears are created, for you to listen. Once in a while, you are entitled to talk, to teach and to move another person’s perspectives. However, one must also listen and contemplate each story, situation and teachings in order to learn. There are instances that you talk non-stop even if doesn’t make sense. This is because you want someone to listen and to understand you. For that reason, consider other people, they also want the same thing. Truth be told, sometimes when we are depressed and low all we need is someone who would just listen and say nothing. It is human’s way of releasing anger, sorrow and despair. Everyone at some point reached this moment, your role is to listen and give the floor to that person. That is life. It’s all about give and take.

“If people are trying to bring you down, it only means that you are above them.”

Crab mentality is something that is considered as an inevitable experience in life. Nobody’s perfect, every now and then jealousy and envy lurks and influences as. It is human nature to compare oneself to others. That is why, success comes with great fall especially when you take each criticism and opinions as a big deal. Think about it; people will only talk if you have done something great. But if you are someone who doesn’t have any accomplishments people will consider you as nobody, an outcast. This is because most people will justify their failures by creating something destructive about you. Why? It is a form of coping mechanism that when you are above others, they try to pull you down for equilibrium. The only way to move this issue aside is to consider every criticism and opinion a challenge to push you further above and don’t let people pull you to their level.     

“Gratitude Turns What We Have Into Enough”

In the battle between good and evil, what people don’t know is that the logic behind it is contentment and gratitude. Why so? Think about it, people do selfish acts because of greed. In simple terms, we don’t know when is enough and when is too much. In reality, even little things count. We don’t need too many material things. If we die, these tangible things will remain, get old and become useless things unless. Contentment, if learn to acknowledge everything we have though cheap and small that’s priceless. Gratitude, if we consider everything as a blessing even if it is minute, it’s all worth it. Why? It is simply because you earned it. You strive for it. And that is enough if you did your best. Wealth, fame, greatness are mere obstacles we are trying to reach. In reality, life alone is a blessing that we should be thankful for. That is enough reason for everyone one to be satisfied.

“Leave your fears behind”

Don’t fear, for God is with us, at moments when it seem that you are struggling by yourself and if you think that he is not listening, He will turn up when you call for Him. Don’t fear for when there is rain, there will be sunlight; when there are storms, surely there will be clear paths, prettier days will come your way. 

Don’t fear, since there is nobody and nothing to fear, the only being that will be able to stop you is yourself. Do not permit your doubts or worries to exclude you from fulfilling your future and following your dreams. Fear not for you are following your spirit, and with a courageous heart, and limitless purpose you can go anyplace you desire, and be someone that you would like to be.

“Some people WANT it to happen, some WISH it would happen, others MAKE it Happen”

In the context of success, everyone has a right to dream and want something. However, the big question is “to what extent are you willing to give to make it happen? “. It is free to create a world where all you ever wanted is there. In reality, there is fine line between you, dreaming of luxury and you, striving to get it. It is true that it is easier said than done, however, you have to make a choice. People gained success not because their lucky, it is because they dreamed, they believed in it and survived with all the adversities in life. That is why fame, success and richness come with great pleasure.  It is because you never gave up in yourself and your dream.  

“Life doesn’t get easier, you just get stronger”

There are certain aspects in our life that due to redundancy we thought that things get easier and less complicated. Experience has thought us to fight and strive to survive. In reality, we can never rewind the clock to the time where things are simpler. Man’s basic instinct is the ability to adapt to change. Life doesn’t get easier, it is just that in time we change, grow, and become responsible beings. Through experience man is able to cope and learn. From it life becomes bearable and humans became tough and strong to face every adversity that life brings. 

“Whatever you do, do it good”

In a society where people are driven by norms and standards, you have to give all your best to be considered remarkable. Mediocrity is not something to be proud of and used as a principle in life. Quality is the key to every success.  If you want to be notable, you have to give a 100% performance level. Take every task as a challenge to learn something and improve your skills.  However, this is not only based in everything you perform but also in dealing with other people. Take note, “do not do unto others, what you don’t what others to do unto you”. In short, you give good quality deeds and works to others and they will give you the same.