"Beauty grabs attention; PERSONALITY grabs the heart"

In a coin there are always two sides.  As we see a person, we either see the physical attributes or later know the personality of the person. We are often blinded by the one’s physical appearance that sometimes it’s too late to know about what really his or her intentions are. Knowing the person in and out can sometimes be difficult because we are so blinded by his or her appearance.  To totally get to know an individual, try evaluating his or her likes and dislikes and reactions to certain situations. By doing this, you not only know a person’s character but also a person’s desire and approach.

"I love the people who keep a smile when they have every right to break down"

In life we always have ups and downs. But for whatever reason, it is always pays to present a smile in for whatever we do or feel. Even though we are in a dire situation, a smile can make a big difference. Losing a loved one is one of the most difficult things to bounce back with but some people move on much quickly because they have the will to focus on the more important things. Life can be harsh sometimes but what we need to know is that this is the way it is here in this world. You have to stay positive even though things might get rough along the way.

"Everyday may not be good. but there is something good in every day."

Each day that you wake up is another chance for you to experience a life changing moment. You may never know which day it is but everyone has chance to feel the greatness and blessings of life. Not all days may be perfect. But, keep in mind that in a world where billions of people lives, there will always be good in each day. With that being said, every day, may not be good but there is something good in every day. It may happen to your loved ones, friends or colleagues. Just be happy for them, enjoy that moment and don’t give up because your day would soon come. Sharing the happiness with them would surely affect you in a positive way. If it happened for them, it will definitely happen to you too. 

"Let God!"

Life is all about finding your purpose, discovering your identity all throughout the process. A lot of people die without finding the right answer. This may be because of the darkness that has blinded people along the road. The only way for you to fight it is through enlightenment. Let God show you the right path. Believe that even if sorrows, despair and problems have conquered you by now, there will always be a light at the end of the road, a rainbow after each rainfall. Believe in yourself and have faith in God. For only through this process you will be able to discover your purpose, find courage to fight every adversity in life and move on. Letting God in your life would not cost you of anything rather it would release the negativity in you.

"Live well, Laugh often and Love with all your HEART"

Living life to the fullest without any regret means, you have to live well, laugh often and love with all your heart. What does this mean? Living well starts with one’s self. In holistic point of view where wellbeing is the main concept, it advocates health as the balance between mind, body, and spirit. Thus, to laugh often comes into play. If you enjoy and appreciate even the simple things in life, you’re free from bitterness and other negative energy. And by allowing yourself to feel with all your heart unafraid of pain, you’ll learn more and connect with society. As you progress, the social aspect must not be neglected. Remember that other people deserve the same things as you do. That is the whole concept of living well, a fine line between right and wrong, healthy and unhealthy; and connecting with others through care, affection and intimacy. 

"We must be willing to let go of the life we have planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us."

Planning is always the basic step in everything we do. As a child, you have imagined and planned a life that you are determined to have as you grow up. But sometimes, not all plans are meant to happen. If ever this happens, you have to be willing to let go and make the right decision. This is because, you may not know it by now but each person has a destiny to fulfill. The question is when will you let go?  Or will you ever let go? It is a risk that you would be taking. And once you’ve turned your path towards a new direction, you have no choice but to move forward. This is the main concept why only few become successful. They have the determination and courage to take that risk and start a new beginning even if it means giving up for awhile. 

"Start each day with a Grateful heart."

Ever wonder why sometimes you feel down all day? Some say it’s a classic sign of depression. In that view point, maybe you are depressed. But think about how depression starts. It may either be due to overstress or you feel sorry for yourself. Thus, a little gratefulness can jumpstart your spirit. All you need to do is to be grateful that you are alive because, life itself is enough for you to be thankful. Once you start your day feeling thankful, no one can ever mess up your day. And with continuous feeling of delight, it is without a doubt, that each day you wake up would be a day to look forward for.  

"A relationship with God is the best relationship you can ever have."

Planning is always the basic step in everything we do. As a child, you have imagined and planned a life that you are determined to have as you grow up. But sometimes, not all plans are meant to happen. If ever this happens, you have to be willing to let go of your plan. This is because, you may not know it by now but each person has a destiny to fulfill. The question is when will you let go?  It is a risk that you would be taking. And once you’ve turned your path towards a new direction, you have no choice but to move forward. This is the main concept why only few become successful. They have the determination and courage to take that risk and start a new plan even if it means giving up for awhile. 

“Follow your heart but take your brain with you”

Falling in love is such a wonderful experience especially for those first timers.  Everybody wants to fall in love because it somehow gives us the sense of belongingness and that someone loves and cares for us. More often than not though, we tend to be very emotional when we fall in love. Even if we are generally rational beings, we become unreasonable when we are clouded by our emotions when we are deeply and madly in love. True love is knowledge. True love is freedom. True love is invigorating. True love is logical. Make no mistake about it. When you love, feel with your heart but think with your head! 

“Silence is the best response to a fool”

We are unique. There are people who are greater and lesser than us in terms of capacity, character and the likes. There are also people who are sometimes beyond our comprehension or shall we say; people that are not within our wavelength. There are people who sometimes have very poor comprehension, understanding and sensitivity. It is sometimes difficult to communicate to these kinds of people. Thus, sometimes it is better to keep things to our selves or not to react to people who don’t make sense at all. It is more often better to keep quiet than responding to things that are unimportant and to people who are shallow.  

“I can always learn new things and think new thoughts”

The Only way to deal with change is to go with the flow and not against it. That is basically why humans were able to survive over the years despite the constant changes that this planet and everything about it underwent. Almost everything and anything under the sun undergoes change and those who survive well are those who are adaptable, flexible and can go with the changes life will bring. The mind is such an extra amazing part of the body that is beyond our understanding. Thus, we have to make use of it every time. Always welcome change. Always welcome new things and continuously improve your surrounding with your imagination.

Positivity and Solution

“Ask yourself this question: ‘Will this matter a year from now?’”

There are events in our life where we get disappointed, frustrated, angry and sad. During this time, we are often so caught up in the moment that sometimes, we forget to think. We are sometimes held by all of these feelings. On the other hand, if you ask yourself, “will this matter a year from now”? What is the answer to it? Obviously, it won’t matter because before this year ends, you will definitely encounter more happy events in your life that will make up for that frustrating, maddening or sad events that you’re having now. There is always a solution to every problem, all you have to do is to think positive through all this. You’ll see, you will get out of it sooner than you think, happier and stronger. 

“A real relationship has fights, trust, faith, tears, pains, arguments, patience, secrets, jealousy, & LOVE.”

Love makes the world go round, as they say. I still believe in this saying. How wonderful it is to love and be loved in return. As human, you might have heard a lot of sob stories from your friends and you might have heard them complaining about people in their lives or people they are in a relationship with. In fact, you might have done the same thing. However, if you look at it closely, a real relationship will involve not only the good things but the bad things as well. It’s not always a smooth ride, it’s bound to be bumpy at some point and you must be strong for this because these things are the things that will make the relationship stronger and better. 

“Always Hope But Never Expect”

In life, you will encounter a lot of different things. As humans, we all have a lot of “wants” and “needs” that we have to fulfill for ourselves and for our loved ones. There are certain events in one’s life when a person gets to the point that he/she wants something really bad. It may be because it can change his or her life for the better. In this case, one should hope but never expect things to work out the way he or she wants it to. Expectations often lead to disappointments and expectations can also reach the impossible things a mind can think of, something out of the ordinary, something that is not possible to happen but once it takes over your mind, you will be on this kind of high and once it doesn’t happen, you will be very disappointed. It’s okay to hope but as much as possible, don’t expect because sometimes life has a funny way of making us realize this by not letting it happen when you expect so much.