If you feel that you are being used, do not think that it’s all that bad. Just think that people need you when then they are need. Though their concept of that need is quite awkward, it would still be good because you are doing the right thing in helping them. In this situation, always remember that you are helping people and that’s all to it. No matter the reason that they have for the help that they need doing the right thing is always the best thing. Things will be better when you do this to anyone.