"You'll never be brave if you don't get hurt ..."
Problems, as bad as they appear, do not actually serve as a punishment. These are ways for you to become somebody who is a whole lot better than what you currently are. It will teach you lessons that will mold you to become stronger, wiser and triumphant. It will help you overcome obstacles since you have been there before and survived. You will never find out the right answers if you did not take risk on answering, will never learn how to evade pain if you have not felt it nor will be victorious if you have never experienced the thing called losing.