If you feel that you are being used, do not think that it’s all that bad. Just think that people need you when then they are need. Though their concept of that need is quite awkward, it would still be good because you are doing the right thing in helping them. In this situation, always remember that you are helping people and that’s all to it. No matter the reason that they have for the help that they need doing the right thing is always the best thing. Things will be better when you do this to anyone.
Yes, but too much generosity will only be abused by others. Good thing is you have more to give, which means you have unlimited resources, lol.
ReplyDeleteThis is one of the reason why i always hate becoming a superhero. Great responsibility.
ReplyDeleteI get what you mean by that, but that's not always a good thing. In relationships, there has to be an equal balance of give and take. If not, the balance is unequal and the power goes to one person who will take advantage of it. Take a boyfriend/girlfriend for an example, if your significant other only called you if they needed help with homework or wanted sex then you would feel used. You would feel like you were only useful for these two things and that the rest of you is insignificant or undesirable. That's my take on it, but I definitely see where you're coming from.
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